AARP: Talking About Your Final Wishes. [Web site]. Published October 1, 2003. Accessed July 31, 2014. Making decisions about how you want to spend your final days is not simple. There are many factors and options available today that may influence your care at the end of life. Where do I want to die? Who will take care of me? What do I have to do to achieve a “good death?” These questions raise just a few of the issues to be considered in deciding your care at the end of life.